As with most things, I
view this issue from a different angle, maybe from a broader perspective.
As educators, we need to get out of our thinking that obesity is caused
by overeating. Especially in the case of morbid obesity. For someone
who is only 300 pounds, they need a whopping 3000 cal/day as a basal rate.
So for those that are 400-600 lbs, they should be eating nonstop all day
long to get them there and keep them there. They have to be true gluttons
in every sense. This is obviously not the case, especially for children. There
must obviously be another answer. I don't want to be the one who is
always blaming everything on our horrible culture, but there is some affect
here. The question must be asked, why does the human body create fat
cells? Even though this is not entirely a simple question with not one simple
answer there is a general category that engulfs the majority of the answers.
This is survival. Why does a body need stored energy? For
survival. What is out there that our kids need to survive? Isn't that all
in their (our) head? Well to name a few: our Lord of the Flies
educational system, broken homes, isolation, abuse, peer pressure, and the big
one... decision making. Survival for the human body is a physiological
shift. It is often referred to as stress, but that term has become so
trite that is almost mocks what people are experiencing. We have placed
our kids in an environment where they feel like they need to be constantly
running and/or fighting. They have no peace and comfort at home because
their parents are engulfed in their own struggle to survive, they go to school
where they haven't figured out how to conquer the social hierarchy to keep from
being isolated or picked on and most have been placed in a role of primary decision
maker for their own outcome. They are choosing their meals, choosing
their friends, choosing their past times, choosing the best actions to keep the
family together and themselves happy. This is not a proper role for a
child. Children should not HAVE to make these decisions. And then when we
see these same kids getting sick and fat at alarming rates, WE, the health
community, blame the children for eating too much or making wrong decisions
that they should not have been making in the first place. Is it too much
to fix? If it is then we have signed the death warrant on our children
and on our culture. We need to start being mindful and start dealing with
these kids like they were adults, because they often seem to be the only ones
acting like one. We need to help them understand what is really happening
in their mind/body/spirit and teach them to be the superintendent of self.
They need to know that they have power to make different choices and
enlighten them to what is really happening to their body. I never give up on
anyone and everyone is worth the effort but it makes more sense to begin to
shift our energy and focus from educating adults to educating kids. They
are world turners right now. I want to coin another term for the society
that I think we live in now. It is no longer a patriarchal society but a
pediarchal society. If you have trouble believing that then follow the
money... watch a little tv and see who those with money are paying attention
to; its our kids. Maybe we should do the same thing.